Committed Intimate Relationships in Washington

In Washington State, a Committed Intimate Relationship (CIR) is a long-term, stable, and marriage-like relationship between two individuals who are not legally married. While the law does not provide a strict definition, courts consider several factors when determining whether a CIR exists.

Factors Courts Consider in Determining a CIR

There is no single test for defining a committed intimate relationship, but courts generally evaluate the following:

  • Duration of the Relationship – How long the couple has been together.

  • Purpose/Intent of the Relationship – Whether the relationship was built on mutual support and commitment.

  • Cohabitation – Whether the couple lived together continuously.

  • Stability and Commitment – The level of commitment between the partners.

  • Marital Status – Whether either party was married to someone else during the relationship.

  • Pooling of Resources – Whether financial resources were shared, such as joint bank accounts, bills, or property.

  • Joint Goals and Projects – Whether the couple engaged in joint financial or life planning.

  • Marital-Like Characteristics – Whether the relationship resembled a marriage in daily life and decision-making.

Evidence That Can Support a CIR Claim

To establish a CIR, individuals may present evidence such as:

  • Joint lease agreements or mortgage documents

  • Shared financial statements or tax returns

  • Wills or beneficiary designations naming the partner

  • Documentation of shared expenses or investments

  • Testimonies from friends or family about the relationship

Key Differences Between CIRs and Marriage

While CIRs share similarities with marriage, there are crucial legal distinctions:

  • Property Division – Unlike married couples, CIR partners do not have an automatic right to community property laws, though courts may divide shared assets equitably.

  • Spousal Maintenance – Courts generally do not award alimony or spousal support in CIR cases.

  • Retirement Benefits – Some retirement accounts may not be divisible in CIR cases.

  • Child Custody & Support – If the couple has children, they must file a separate action for custody and child support matters.

Domestic Partnership vs. CIR

A domestic partnership is a legally recognized relationship that grants certain rights and benefits similar to marriage. In Washington, domestic partnerships are primarily available to same-sex couples and individuals over 62. Unlike CIRs, registered domestic partnerships offer specific legal protections regarding property, healthcare, and inheritance.

Seek Legal Guidance on Committed Intimate Relationships

Since CIR laws are not explicitly defined in Washington and outcomes can vary, consulting an attorney with experience in family law is essential. The attorneys at Bruner Anderson Law Group, LLC can help you navigate your legal options and protect your rights.

If you believe you are in a committed intimate relationship and need legal guidance, contact Bruner Anderson Law Group, LLC today to schedule a consultation.